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Understanding Others

#Relationships#Empathy#Communication

This blog is nothing but the rambling of a young teenager who has many thoughts and finally has a medium to express it. Everyone in this world has thousands of thoughts running through their minds and here through these blogs I am just gonna share some thoughts of mine. 

Throughout our childhood we have very little choices to make as parents make most of them for us, but the same is not true as we enter into adulthood. The education we get, the experiences that we come across, the people that we meet all that defines how we think and view this one world that we live in. All the conflicts, misunderstandings, egos are also caused by the differences in the ideas between two different people. But if we think about it, we can see that the ideas and views that others express are actually not something that is opposing ours, but just their take on that particular issue.                                                                   

"EVERYTIME SOMEONE EXPRESSES THEMSELVES,                                                                THE WORLD BECOMES A BIT MORE  INTERESTING PLACE" 

In every issue that we come across in our day to day life, many say there will be a choice that is a good and bad, which I think is half right and half wrong. Yes with every issue you get a way to handle it, but life is not so much easy that it is only between two choice. The number of people that are connected by the issue, the number of ways one views and handles the issue increases. Most of the time the choice is easy and the issue is solved but that is not always the case. Some times our views conflict with each other, the meaning of what is right and what is wrong will be different based on where you are from.

This is something that should not be avoided but understood. We don't need to accept their views nor them ours, but we should understand that they are different from us but that doesn't need to separate the people as long as they are in a cordial relationship.

We need to understand that to care for someone, to be friends with someone or to be in a relationship with someone, that someone need not be the same type of person that you are(If they are and you are happy, then that's good. I am not saying they shouldn't be) but all you need to do is accept the person for what they are.

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The quote is from the American sitcom Brooklyn nine-nine.